Columbia Assisted Living Christmas Card Featuring Dementia Resident Artwork

The winter scene in our Holiday card above was painted by an Agapé Senior resident at our Lexington community.

Art is an expression of us; it can depict our moods: our joy, our sadness, our excitement, our love. The Art without Boundaries program offered at Agapé Senior communities brings the restorative powers of art to our dementia residents, allowing them to communicate in ways that have been lost in their words, reasoning, and logic. The creation of anything beautiful has universal appeal, and for those with dementia, helps to bridge the gap between their world and ours.

For more information about Art without Boundaries and other Agapé Senior programs and services, please call 1-800-411-AGAPÉ (2427) or visit

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Columbia Assisted Living Trains Chefs to Enhance Resident Dining Experience

Seasoned pork tenderloin sizzles in an ironskillet; large pots over low flames emit exotic spice aromas as sauces simmer within, plus the sound of chopping vegetables and fruit all added to the rhythm of the preparation.

This was the scene recently at Agapé Senior—Kathwood as Michael Fusco, executive chef for Agapé Senior, hosted the first in a series of culinary trainings for Agapé sous-chefs from across the state. These chefs-in-training not only received valuable instruction from an experienced chef, but also actually assisted in preparing many Holiday favorites for a party being catered later that evening for over 250 guests.

Chef Michael’s goal that day was to provide the culinary staff with new menu options along with helping them improve their food presentation skills. All to reach the ultimate goal of enhancing the dining experience for the residents of all the Agapé communities.

It may not look like it, but there is precision and order amongst the chaos of a busy commercial kitchen. The crisp lines of the chefs’ uniforms, the shiny stainless steel appliances and prep tables, along with neatly stacked inventories of food are all a part of the atmosphere. Each sous-chef was concentrating on a different task as Chef Michael supervised and helped coordinate the timing, decoration, and completion of the party trays, which included stuffed mushrooms, hummus, pork tenderloin, and several Holiday sauces along with an array of delicious dessert selections. Each dish must meet Chef Michael’s high standards before it’s considered “ready.”

The chefs and culinary staff of Agapé Senior want every meal enjoyed by residents, friends, and family to be a memorable dining experience. “We want each meal to be healthy and nutritious,but also pleasurable where taste, smell, and presentation all play a part. With these trainings, we all can make that happen every day,” remarked Chef Michael.

The seven-month series will continue on January 3, 2012 and will feature how to prepare homemade soups, stews, and chili for the winter season. If you would like more information, you can e-mail Agapé Catering and Culinary at ACC@AgapeSenior.com.
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Columbia Alzheimer's Expert Gives Tips for Care During Holidays

As you get ready for the celebrations this weekend here are some ideas and tips for you and your loved one with Alzheimer's and like dementia. Involve the person with Alzheimer's Disease (AD) You may want to begin slowly, let the person help in small ways:

• Prepare food
• Wrap packages
• Hand you decorations
• Set the table
• Put stamps on letters

Avoid Using:

• Candies for decorations or putting out large boxes of candy
• Artificial fruit/vegetables or other decorations that look edible
• Real candles

Maintain as normal routine as possible. Holiday preparations can become disruptive and confusing.

• Build on past traditions and memories
• Sing familiar holiday songs
• Rent a classic movie
• Reminisce

Adapt gift giving. Encourage people to buy useful gifts for the person:

• Comfortable easy to remove clothing
• Tapes and CD's of favorite music
• Videos of family members
• Photo albums

Warning about unsafe gifts:

• Dangerous tools, instruments, utensils
• Challenging board games
• Complicated electronic equipment
• Pets

Take care of yourself, take time for you. Search for and use community recourses, services, patient and caregiver support groups. Develop a bulletin board for listing tasks and responsibilities so that if someone ever asks "What can I do to help?" Respond with specific idea. Let friends and family know what you would like for a gift:

• Certificate to restaurant
• Certificate for laundry or dry cleaner
• Maid service for day or week
• Sitting with your loved one
• Movie tickets
• Spa day

Let friends and family know:

• Celebrate over lunch or brunch rather than an evening meal
• Work around evening confusion
• Consider serving nonalcoholic drinks
• Have fun and allow AD person to have fun
• Keep the room bright during the day until evening about an hour before bedtime and then start dimming the lights. This will help keep sun-downing at a minimum

 Adelle Stanley 803-730-1220 Director of Dementia Programs Agape Senior Services

Of all the things in life that matter, Family, Friends and Faith are the most important. Treasure these and you will always be rich.

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Romans 12:6-10 ⁶ We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; ⁷ if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; ⁸ if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully. .

Rock Hill Assisted Living Resident is Featured Speaker at Alzheimer Walk

The Face of Alzheimer’s Vera Holder, a resident of Agape Senior assisted living in Rock Hill was the featured speaker at the Walk to End Alzheimer's held recently at the Winthrop Coliseum. Vera was chosen because she has Alzheimer's and knows what it is like to live with the disease on a daily basis. During a pause in Vera's speech several Agape staff that was participating in the event shouted "WE LOVE YOU VERA." Vera's daughter who also attended the event stated that "I am proud to have a mother who doesn’t mind talking about living with Alzheimer's. She has come to understand she did nothing to cause the disease and there is nothing she can currently do to stop it"

Vera Holder is the face of Alzheimer's. It is estimated that 5.4 million people in America are living with the disease. The Alzheimer's association wants people to be aware of this epidemic and has produced a short video that shows the impact of the disease on the caregivers and health care system.

Agape Senior is one of the leading providers of memory care in the state of South Carolina and has recently completed a basic training for every employee about the disease. Adelle Stanley, formerly with the Alzheimer Association, is now the Director of Dementia Programs. Adelle conducted the state wide employee training for Agape Senior as her first assignment after joining Agape.

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West Columbia Assisted Living Hosts Photography and Art Show

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill, Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia.

West Columbia Assisted Living Welcomes Artist Resident

Agape Senior of West Columbia has many ways of welcoming our new residents. Among the many ways, we offer our new residents the opportunity to host welcome parties. These parties are a wonderful way for friends and families to get to see their loved ones’ new home. Today, we rolled out the red carpet for one of our newest residents and talented artist, Ms. Sara Gray. Ms. Gray is an accomplished artist and has had many of her pieces displayed in several galleries throughout the state. Ms. Gray had many guests and thoroughly enjoyed showing off her beautifully decorated apartment. The walls in Ms. Gray’s apartment look much like an art gallery – with all of her still lifes and landscapes beautifully displayed. Ms. Gray was resident of Agape several years ago and we are very thankful for her return.

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill, Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia.

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Columbia Senior Care Employees Walk to End Alzheimers

The Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer's is the nation's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer's. Agape Senior has committed to sponsor and walk in the Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s for the entire state of South Carolina. Saturday, October 15 was the Midlands Walk to End Alzheimer’s at Finlay Park. This walk was particularly special with the addition of the “Promise Garden” remembrance ceremony. Each walker was given a flower that represented their journey as a caregiver, survivor, or someone who currently has the disease. Each petal can be inscribed with their loved ones name and story.

At the beginning of the walk, we collected all of the flowers and made a garden, so that when they returned they could walk through the Promise Garden. It was a wonderfully symbolic moment. The walk was a huge success and Team Agape was one of the largest teams! Thank you to everyone that walked and participated in our fundraisers. Due to your generosity we were able to raise over $500 for the Alzheimer’s Association. A special thank you as well to our fellow Alzheimer’s Walk Committee Members and to Ashley Hacker for making this year’s Walk a success!

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West Columbia Ambulance Company Appreciates Employees

On Saturday, October 8, Agape Medical Services (AMS) held an employee appreciation barbeque at its office on Ninth Street in West Columbia. Glenn Bullock, AMS President, thanked the staff for going the extra mile in providing the quality care that the company is known for throughout the medical community.

Employees and their families were invited and enjoyed an afternoon of music, Gamecock football, food, and good fellowship. Scott Middleton, CEO of Agape Senior, attended the event and thanked the employees for their dedication and hard work in making AMS a premiere provider of ambulance service in the Midlands.

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill, Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia

Garden City Assisted Living Hosts Alzheimer's Support Group

Agape Senior Assisted Living of Garden City is hosting Alzheimer's support groups every month. They are held on the last Thursday every month from 6-8pm. Last night we had four of our Garden City residents' families come to the support group!! Everyone spoke about issues they are having with their loved one and this disease, different ideas they each had to making that family member feel more comfortable, and supporting each other through the different stages of Alzheimer's.

At times we laughed about the different stories of their loved ones and at other times we all had tears in our eyes! Alzheimer's makes for an extremely emotional journey, a lot of worries, and even more questions. If you or someone you know could benefit from our support group, please join us and we can get through it together!

For more information on Agape Senior of Garden City or our Alzheimer's Support Group, please contact Erin Kissinger at (843) 655-6346 or ekissinger@agapesenior.com

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Laurens SC Assisted Living Finds a Way

At Agape Senior, we make it happen. From Assisted Living to Hospice, from durable medical equipment to pharmacy, from marketers to the social workers…we don’t give up. Recently I had the fortunate experience at Agape Senior Laurens to help a family that had lost all hope for a better life.Agape Hospice of the Piedmont had brought the family to our attention through their social worker.

Bill, the 94 year old husband is on hospice and had reached a point where his wife was unable to provide any care for him. Bill was notable to transfer himself from his bed to a wheelchair any longer and Vera his92 year old wife was to frail and weak to help him. To complicate matters Vera’s daughter who had a brain hemorrhage in 2006 lives with them and cannot help with either of her deteriorating parents.

The family lives over an hour from the Agape Laurens assisted living community, so I would travel to their house and meet with the family and social worker to find out what we could do to help. The situation looked bleak because there just were not any funds available to pay for care.

Knowing that something had to be done our hospice donated 10days of respite care which allowed Bill to start receiving the immediate care he desperately needed. The ten days bought us some time to try and figure out a more permanent solution. It also gave Vera the peace of mind knowing that Bill was now getting proper care. During this process we continued to look for a permanent solution for the family.

I worked diligently on the paperwork and detail to make the transition from Bill’s home to our community as smooth as possible. Through the process of working with the family we discovered that Bill is eligible for a little known VA benefit called aid and attendance. The aid an attendance benefit was the answer to our prayers because it will allow Bill to remain at our assisted living as a permanent resident.

It is probable that most other care providers would not have given this family a second look after seeing the challenges and financial condition they were in. Fortunately there are still companies and leaders with compassion and a willingness to search for a solution because it is the right thing to do. Agape Hospice helped get the family out of immediate crisis; Agape Laurens worked out a billing arrangement to postpone payment for services until VA benefits can be established. I paid $250.00 out of my pocket of the original application fee so Bill could be admitted. Our whole team worked together and brought a critical situation under control. I believe our seniors deserve that someone is willing to take the extra step to provide the care they so desperately need.

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Conway Senior Care Worker Honors Veteran and Answers Her Own Call of Duty

Today I had the privilege of being an Agape representative at a memorial for John Caskey. In addition, I was given the honor of being associated with someone I consider to be my “Agape sibling.”

The Caskey family’s deep respect for their dad’s therapist was evident. Physical therapy for Mr.Caskey was enhanced by the bond he shared with his therapist since both proudly served in the Armed Forces. Mr. Caskey,a WWII veteran, served in the US Navy; he was shot down in the Pacific and endured capture and life as a POW. He then chose to defend his country again during the Korean Conflict.

Sitting by my side during Mr. Caskey’s memorial was an Army soldier in full dress uniform, duty bound. This soldier spoke to the congregation about military codes of honor and gave a personal example of Mr. Caskey’s adherence to each code, even in the last days of his life. This was clearly above and beyond the role of most physical therapists.

My pride in this soldier grew even more as the Naval Honor Guard entered to present the flag. As “Taps” was played and the folding of the flag began, Crystal, the therapist/soldier, stood and snapped to attention with a sharp salute.

Lieutenant Crystal Steinbar, commander of her unit, will soon be deployed to Afghanistan. Agape’s great loss will be our country’s greater gain. Godspeed to you, Lieutenant.

Shane Hubbard

Senior Solution Advisor

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West Columbia Senior Community Holds Blood drive

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West Columbia AMS Ambulance: Serving the Community

Striving to utilize the gifts the Lord has blessed them with as they serve those in the community who entrust them with their safe transport and health care, Agape’ Medical Services has adopted and lives out the logo that represents the nine fruits of the spirit.

“Our faithfulness moves us to provide quality, gentle care, rooted in the stewardship of our call to serve others.”

Agape’ Medical Services (AMS) was founded in 2006 by a formed partnership between Rev. Scott Middleton and Glenn Bullock. Representing more than a simple carrier service, AMS strives to impact the community by providing a private ambulance service. The AMS staff is highly trained and courteous and looks forward to serving the community by providing an excellent ambulance service.

AMS currently has twelve ambulances; as volume increases, steps will be taken to ensure there are enough ambulances to be placed into service in a short period of time. Every employee has a driving record background check and a South Carolina Law Enforcement Division criminal background check prior to being employed. Each ambulance is fully stocked with supplies that will serve patients and residents. AMS has a dispatcher on call 24 hours a day who can address any concerns regarding patient transport. Each ambulance also has two radios on board to ensure that communication between the dispatcher and the units is not compromised.

AMS also has two billing professionals who can handle all your needs. They operate Monday through Friday, 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. and can help answer any inquiry, whether it is from our patients or from a facility that AMS services. AMS bills directly to Medicare, Medicaid, private pay, and dozens of other third-party insurance companies and will work with anyone on a payment plan. A custom billing schedule can be set up to suit the needs of customers.

AMS is a wonderful part of Agape’ whose main focus is to serve the Lord by serving others. Manny Fonseca says his favorite part about working for AMS is “the love, everyone I talk to just loves Agape’.” As we all know, Agape’ stands for “unconditional love." AMS treats every case and every resident with love and care. How blessed we are to have such an amazing team representing the Agape’ name.

Lexington Assisted Living Collects Over Half Ton of Food to Help Local Food Bank

Every single day in the United States families do not have enough to eat. According to the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA), over 17 million children lived in food insecure (low food security and very low food security) households in 2009. The number of families in need of assistance from food pantries has increased dramatically during the current economic crisis in our country. The increased demand has put a lot of pressure on food banks, soup kitchens, and shelters to keep shelves stocked and to have the resources to meet the need.

On August 15, 2011, the Agape Senior Assisted Living facilities from across the state completed a three month long food drive to help several South Carolina food bank agencies. The eight Agape entities were able to collect 1.7 tons of non-perishable food to help restock the shelves of Harvest Hope, Low Country Food Bank, and Tender Heart Ministries in York County.

Agape Senior Lexington was the contest winner, collecting 1,122 pounds of food, followed closely by Agape Senior Laurens with 1,085 pounds, and Agape Senior Harbison coming in third with 365 pounds collected. The remaining facilities were Agape Senior Conway with 202 pounds, Agape Senior Rock Hill with 200 pounds, Agape Senior Kathwood with 164 pounds, Agape Senior West Columbia with 115 pounds, and Agape Senior Garden City with 94 pounds.

Hunger is a huge, complex problem that cannot be easily solved. The dedicated people on the front lines who fight the battle daily need all of the support they can get. The cooperation between businesses, community leaders, churches, and volunteers has created a safety net that is balancing precariously between supply and demand. If you are concerned about hunger in South Carolina or in your local community and would like to get involved, contact your local food bank for volunteer opportunities.

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill, Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia.

Garden City Senior Care Provider Hosts Brunch and Tour

Join Agape Senior for a free Brunch & Tour on Saturday, August 20th from 10:00am-2:00pm!! Located at the Agape Senior Garden City Assisted Living Facility (11951 Grandhaven Drive, Murrells Inlet, SC 29576). Stop by to meet the Agape family and check out our beautiful Assisted Living. Please call or email Leah Bennett with any questions! 843-357-0200 or LBennett@AgapeSenior.com.

Agape is a faith-based organization and a recognized leader in patient-centered hospice care, offering extensive services throughout the Grand Strand region of South Carolina. We are respected for our professional and compassionate care, allowing our patients to experience a peaceful death and their families to receive the support services they need so they have a special sense of spiritual and emotional peace. Grand Strand, Myrtle Beach, Conway, Garden City, Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, Pawley Island, Socastee, Bucksport, Georgetown, Marion, and Mullins, SC. Call us at 843-914-1197.

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South Carolina Senior Care Provider Impacts Winthrop University Intern

My Life as an Intern…

I was in my second semester of my freshman year at Winthrop University. It had been a difficult 8 months and as I found myself back and forth between the Hospice House and school. I couldn’t help but wonder why God had chosen my father to have to endure something as agonizing as cancer. It was now January 19, 2009 around 6:00 am when I woke up covered in sweat from a dream. My dream took place in my father’s hospice room. My father looked as he did before he became ill, all our friends and family were there and it was some sort of celebration. I realized there was a cake in the middle of the room that had the number “1” on it. Wide awake I felt in a panic and scared to death that something had happened and I wasn’t there. I frantically called my mom and she assured me there had been no changes. Within an hour or so my mom called back to say my Aunt and my cousin were on their way to pick me up because they didn’t think my dad would last much longer. When we finally arrived I ran down the hallway into my dad’s room. He was lying there with all of my family around the bed. He passed away around 3:30 am on January 20, 2009. It was at that moment I knew I belonged in the Healthcare field.

When I first began taking classes at Winthrop three years ago, I had my heart set on being a psychologist. About three days later I had my heart set on being an entrepreneur. I gave that about 6 months and decided early childhood education was the way to go. I did my service learning experiment and realized maybe working with small children all day wasn’t for me. After losing my father to lung cancer, having a mother who has worked in a hospital all her life, and taking an interest in everything concerning Obama’s healthcare initiative, I really knew healthcare was what I was meant to do. I took my first healthcare management class and knew immediately I had made the right decision. I had my heart set on hospital administration. I never thought I would end up in long-term care.

Now that I had figured out what realm of the work world I wanted to be in, I had to figure out what part of it I wanted to work in. I decided Hospital Administration was the way to go! Then, I decided to intern with Agape’ Senior which obviously doesn’t fall under the category of “Hospital Administration”. However, I decided to give it a try, and little did I know these past ten weeks would teach me more about life and senior care than I ever thought possible. Working with the Agape’ Foundation, Agape’ Again, and the marketing team has been an amazing experience. But, working as a med tech and a caregiver part- time has really been the Lord’s way of finally showing me where my place is in Healthcare, and I truly feel that he is leading me to become a nurse. It is my hope that one day I will be able to mix my degree in Healthcare Management with being a Registered Nurse (RN).

Agape’ has given me the amazing opportunity to do some wonderful things. After being here for ten weeks I have learned exactly what it is that sets the Agape’ family apart from any other organization. And that is that Agape’ is truly a family working to serve the Lord and in doing so, loving our aging friends and families who reside and are a part of the Agape’ Facilities. Love is the main component in all that is done here and with that, there can never be failure. I want to thank the Agape’ family for taking me in this summer and giving me the opportunity to intern with such an amazing company!

Sara Prosser
Healthcare Management major at Winthrop University.

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South Carolina Senior Care Provider Features Resident Artwork

In 2010, Agape Senior Lexington introduced a new, innovative art program for dementia residents. The company Art without Boundaries started to work with our residents using Mneme® Therapy.The program is aimed specifically at improving the quality of life for people with dementia by using pleasurable experiences such as singing, movement, painting, and storytelling to create whole-brain communication.

Art is an expression of us. It can depict our moods: our joy, our sadness, our excitement, our love. Art without Boundaries brings the restorative powers of art to the dementia resident, allowing him/her to communicate in ways that have been lost in words, reasoning, and logic. The creation of something beautiful has universal appeal, and for someone with dementia, helps to bridge the gap between their world and ours.

Our memories are precious and in many ways define our beliefs and perceptions about the world in which we live. Some memories are so vivid that a person is able to re-create in his mind the perfect tone of light that illuminated the original scene or to remember how a cool, late summer breeze felt on her face. The Art without Boundaries program can help residents express the beauty of an imaginary place or can bring a real memory alive through the medium of painting.

For the dementia resident these distant memories may be all that he has left. The goal at Agape Senior is to focus not on what the dementia resident has lost, but to figure out how best to work with the person who remains.

The quality and diversity of the paintings that have been produced by the residents involved with Art without Boundaries program are astounding.

Lisa Livingston, Executive Director of The Agape Foundation, has spearheaded a campaign to turn each resident's painting into an artistic notecard or 12” by 12” print ready for framing. The first set of 12 notecards and 12 prints are now available for purchase through the AskAgape.com web store; all proceeds from the sales will benefit the foundation. The cost of a set of 12 notecards is $12.00;each 12” by 12” print is $12.00.

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Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve.Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill, Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia

South Carolina Senior Care Provider Promotes Timely Dementia Training

My Personal Experience with Dementia Training



The upstairs dayroom in Villa II at West Columbia's Agape Senior campus had been prepared for a presentation. Thirty metal chairs in rows, a table with a projector, laptop, and paperwork were in the front of the room. Next to the table stood a short, determined looking woman whom I discovered was Adelle Stanley. Adelle was waiting for people to show up for her next basic dementia training class. For the last three months Adelle has been traveling the state with a mission and purpose. She has been giving her dementia basic training presentation at every Agape assisted living community, skilled nursing facility, hospice office, doctor's office, insurance office, pharmacy or anywhere else Agape Senior employees can be found.

About five minutes before the scheduled presentation time, people started to arrive. A dietary personnel, maintenance workers, housekeepers, nurses, nursing assistants, med techs—it did not matter, all Agape employees are required to take the class. Adelle started the class at 10:00 a.m.; for the next two hours she took the group on a journey into the world of the dementia patient, a world where logic and reason are not part of the equation, but emotions, human touch, and basic human needs are always present.

It became evident early into the presentation that this was more than a job for Adelle. With emotion in her voice, she talked about how great is the need and expressed her passion for reaching the dementia patient on some level. She is an advocate and she was looking to everyone in the room to become an advocate. Adelle wove in her personal stories from her 19 years of experience with the scripted training and showed how simple acts; slight variations of technique and understanding could change completely the outcome of relating to a dementia patient.

Halfway into the training there was a stunning Power Point slide projected onto the Villa II hallway wall. The slide was a side-by-side comparison of a healthy brain next to a dementia patient's brain. There were large holes and missing sections out of the brain from the dementia patient. I believe my reaction was similar to everyone else's in the room: There is so much missing, how could anyone function with that brain?

As I was thinking this, Adelle walked over to the projected image on the wall and traced her hand along the parts of the dementia brain that were still intact. Adelle turned to face us and quietly said, “But look how much of the brain is still there to work with.” In an instant my mindset was changed. I was now seeing things from a different perspective. I could see how understanding symptoms and behavior could be useful clues for our front-line caregivers. Knowledge is power, but understanding is the key.

The bottom line is that the dementia patient is a human being with feelings and needs. He or she is someone's mother or father, grandmother or grandfather. What is important is our ability to meet each person where he or she is. I found myself wishing that my father had someone like Adelle, or someone trained by Adelle, as he progressed through his six years of dementia prior to his death. I was grateful to Adelle and Agape Senior for giving me the opportunity to attend this important training.

Being a leader in an industry requires a company to provide educational opportunities to its employees. Agape Senior remains committed to following that path. CEO Scott Middleton states, “Our goal is to provide education and training opportunities for all of our employees.Ultimately, I want to have the best trained staff anywhere in the senior care industry.”

Joe B. Nester

West Columbia South Carolina – Agape Senior

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Conway Assisted Living Wins Best of the Beach

Agape Senior of the Grandstrand was voted by the readers of Horry Independent the Best Retirement Community for 2011.

Agape is a faith-based organization and a recognized leader in patient-centered hospice care, offering extensive services throughout the Grand Strand region of South Carolina. We are respected for our professional and compassionate care, allowing our patients to experience a peaceful death and their families to receive the support services they need so they have a special sense of spiritual and emotional peace. Grand Strand, Myrtle Beach, Conway, Garden City, Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, Pawley Island, Socastee, Bucksport, Georgetown, Marion, and Mullins, SC. Call us at 843-914-1197. AskAgape.com

Columbia Assisted Living: Who Gives Assistance in Assisted Living?

I had been having a hard time dealing with a death we had here at our facility. One lady who moved in suddenly took a turn for the worse and passed away about one week after she arrived. No one saw it coming; it completely blindsided us all.

I had found myself very fond of this resident. Her family life had never been easy. Although a very tough, witty, and sometimes extremely funny lady, her life had been full of heartbreaks and struggle. Caring for her family had been her top priority. Each time one of them struggled, she never let them struggle alone.

That same caretaking nature could be seen in the way she helped those around the facility. Constantly asking if folks needed help getting up from their seats, directing traffic to the next activity or just sitting and asking someone how he felt, she never gave up that caretaker role.

And suddenly she was gone.

I struggled with this because I was very fond of her, but it was also difficult because I felt as though this nice lady had never gotten enough of “her” time. She was always giving it, every ounce of energy she had, to her friends and family. Then, when she moved to a place where she could relax, she was gone within a week.

I ran into her granddaughter in the hallway last week. She gave me a hug and told me how happy she was that her grandmother could spend some time not worrying about her family. She could relax in a safe, fun place and do what she loved doing the most – spending time with folks who needed help.

And even though it was only a week, it was a week she had never had.

It’s times like this that give me pause as I walk the halls of our beautiful building. I see that one woman I can always count on to throw a joke my way or that nice man who always greets me with a “Hey, buddy!” each morning. I watch them as they sing their favorite hymns together or laugh about something that happened 20 years ago.

And I see how they spend time with each other. Patiently listening to the dementia resident as she tells them a story they’ve heard one thousand times before, only to laugh like it was the first time they have heard it. I see how residents invite new folks to join them in their room for a chat. I sit in amazement at their ability to care and comfort all of those within their own community.

I caught myself standing in front of the door of the lady who passed away. I was deep in thought when a wonderful, long-time resident of our facility walked up to me, patted me on the back, and said, “It was very nice that we got to know her. She sure helped a lot of people.”

This building has many caregivers. Some of them are the very people who reside in these halls. When I talk with potential residents about assisted living, I know that the “assistance” doesn’t just come from the staff. And I marvel in the fact that the lives that are assisted are not just those of the residents.

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Agape Senior Assisted Livingof Kathwood provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors andtheir families, the dedicated staff works diligently to optimize quality oflife by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Columbia, Forest Acres,Blythewood, Elgin, lugoff, Camden – Call us 803-787-1234

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West Columbia Agape Senior Assisted Living Melody Makers...RISING STARS

I am sure many of you know of our West Columbia Agape Senior Melody Makers choir; the famous songbirds, who have toured the Midlands' Agape Senior campuses for many years, sing Christmas carols at the Columbia Metropolitan Airport annually, have dazzled the West Columbia Chamber of Commerce and even performed in Orangeburg at the Methodist Oakes Retirement Community! Just when we thought our star had risen as far as it could go, we pushed it EVEN FURTHER! Today, May 19, The Agape Senior Melody Makers completed the recording of their very first album!

The Agape Senior Melody Makers group began its journey to fame in 2004 at the West Columbia Assisted Living facility. Comprised of a handful of women at the time (and only one man), it was just a small group of residents with a common interest--music. Nancy Vosburgh, whose mother was a resident in our Villas, leads the group. Nancy has a background in community theatre and sings in her church choir. Her mother also had a special love for music. With the assistance of the Life Enrichment Coordinator on piano, the little group began.

Three concerts a year at the West Columbia location over time blossomed into 12, including performances all over campus; then, in addition, three concerts per year in our other Midlands' facilities eventually grew to outreach into the community . Not only have our performances grown and our talent expanded, but so has the group. Now consisting of 20 women and six men, the group has quadrupled in size and is growing consistently as new residents move in! The group has two members who have been with us since the very beginning. Today, for those of us who have been involved with the Melody Makers since the day the group began, a vision and a dream has become a reality.

With a program of our Greatest Songs Ever (or at least the group thinks they were), which we have been rehearsing for months, the Melody Makers got in our Agape Senior bus and rode up to Mt. Hebron United Methodist Church to record our first ever CD! The members of the group were in great spirits as we arrived and walked into the sanctuary. Nancy Vosburgh (Director and Volunteer), Yu Chong (Facility Chaplain), Amy McCormack( Life Enrichment), Patsy Pennington (Piano and Volunteer), and Cynthia Scherbaty (Life Enrichment) were all there to ensure things went smoothly. Donald Maher of our I.T. department recorded the songs for the group. It was such a great adventure!

In three hours the group completed its 40 minute compilation of songs for the album. Exhausted by all the excitement of the afternoon, the group boarded the Agape bus and left for home, proud of what its members had accomplished. Donald is currently working on arranging the songs and plans to have production completed in the next few weeks, so don't fret, the CD will be out soon enough! The plan is for all proceeds from the CD sales to benefit the Agape Foundation. A CD release party is already in the works, so keep your calendars open. Agape Senior West Columbia is so proud of our Melody Makers and anticipates many great things to come for the future.

by Amy McCormack

West Columbia South Carolina Assisted Living

Agape Senior of West Columbia provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff strives to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. West Columbia, Cayce, South Congaree, Pine Ridge, Springdale SC. – Call Agape Senior Assisted Living West Columbia at (803)939-3000 or (800) 411-2427

Columbia SCARCH Convention to Include Two Presentations by Agapé Senior

Two AgapéSenior employees will be presenters at this year’s Spring Conference being held at the Columbia Convention Center for the South Carolina Association of Residential Care Homes(SCARCH). Joe Nester, Director of Internet Marketing for Agapé Senior, will be presenting strategic ways to build census on-line. Pamela Duncan, Director of Compliance for Skilled Nursing, will be presenting information on disaster planning and emergency evacuation reviews.

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Agapé Senior’s mission is to provideintegrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-basedatmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to providethe best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. Weare committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve.Call us at 800-411- 2427. Columbia, Forest Acres, Lexington, Irmo, Rock Hill,Laurens, Conway, Garden City, West Columbia

Rock Hill Assisted Living Resident "Papa" Carroll Wilkie Loves to Garden

Agapé Assisted Living resident “Papa” Carroll Wilkie enjoys spending his free time tending to a garden he started in the back of his community. The garden provides a great physical activity as well as a social opportunity for everyone involved. Many other residents within the community enjoy a view of the garden from the windows of their apartments. There is buzz and excitement about the growth of the garden throughout the community and all are anxiously awaiting the first batch of fresh vegetables.

There have been numerous studies that have shown the health benefits of gardening. Working in the fresh air and sunshine, completing tasks with a purpose, and having a sense of accomplishment are all benefits derived from gardening. Agapé Senior Assisted Living of Rock Hill is seeking ways constantly to improve the lives of senior adults.

Cameron Cunningham

Rock Hill SouthCarolina Assisted Living – Agape Senior Rock Hill

Agape Senior Assisted Living of Rock Hill provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff works diligently to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Rock Hill, Fort Mill,York, Tega Cay, Lake Wyle – Call us 803-207-8000

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South Carolina Dementia Care

By, Adelle Stanley

Agape Senior Director of Dementia programs

As we learned last week dementia is not a specific disease. It is a general term used to describe many symptoms that cause different brain disorders. Just as Pudding is the heading for many different types of pudding. Dementia is just a heading that makes you think of many different types of diseases that cause problems preforming activities of daily living (things that someone does to go through the day).

Normal Aging

We all know that as we age we sometimes become less able to recall names, places and faces. Normal Aging does not affect you activities of daily living. (ADL)

When someone thinks they have a memory problem they should go to a knowledgeable physician who is keeping pace with the fast changing information about dementia. The physician will have to do many tests to find out what type of dementia the person has. One of the first diagnoses may be:

Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI)

With MCI a person has problems with their memory. These problems are bad enough that other people notice. They would also show upon an evaluation the physician may do. The physician will do testing to find out what the problem is. MCI may be what the physician tells the person they have until the physician does testing and is able to determine what disease is causing the diagnoses of dementia.

Alzheimer’s disease (AD) is the number one cause of a dementia diagnoses.

Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive disease, where symptoms gradually worsen over a number of years. In its early stages, memory loss is mild, but with late-stage Alzheimer's, individuals lose the ability to carry on a conversation and respond to their environment. Alzheimer's is the sixth leading cause of death in the United States. Those with Alzheimer's live an average of eight years after their symptoms become noticeable to others, but survival can range from four to 20 years, depending on age and other health conditions.

Next week we will learn about other dementia diseases…It is so important to get a correct diagnosis

West Columbia South Carolina – Agape Senior

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve.West Columbia, Lexington, Springdale, Cayce, Oak Grove, St Andrews, Columbia,South Congaree, Pine ridge, Red Bank. Call us at 800-411- 2427

Agapé Senior Assisted Living Garden City Rolls out Red Carpet for Residents

Imagine bringing your Grandmother into an assisted living community on her very first day. Now imagine the moment she enters the front door being immediately greeted by several staff members who welcome her to her new home with a red carpet rolled out for her entrance. You can see the love,kindness and joy in the eyes of the staff as they welcome her home.

Now picture the administrator giving your Grandmother a personal tour of the community and pointing out key places where she will most likely want to frequent. Then imagine her going to her room and finding her door covered with balloons and her new family, the neighboring residents, there to welcome her to her new home in Agape Senior’s Assisted Living in Garden City.

There is only one person that makes this kind of magic happen daily in Garden City. Meet JoAnn. JoAnn is the Life Enrichment Coordinator for the Garden City, community. This is what she expects from herself on a daily basis…and achieves. From the moment every new resident enters the door at Agapé Senior Assisted Living in Garden City, JoAnn coordinates a “red carpet experience.”

Now take a peek at the rest of your Grandmother’s first day. What a surprise she has when she realizes that she does not even have time to sit in her room because the first activity is starting; it is her first game of Bunco. Soon after, she finds one of the many newspapers available throughout the community and a new friend to talk with about current events. Suddenly the smell of beef tips over rice catch Grandma’s attention. Her new friend and she head to the dining room with JoAnn leading them along with a smile. Grandma is pleased when she samples the culinary delights that the Agapé chef has prepared!

Right after lunch, members of a local church come by and Grandma joins in a sing-a-long. She sings her heart out to her favorite hymns along with 40 of her new neighbors. Before dinner, Grandma enjoys one of Garden City’s famous “happy hours” where she sips a cool beverage while listening to live music. Then a delicious dinner is served, and Grandma ends her first day with a smile.

JoAnn makes every day for every resident in the community as festive and happy as Grandma’s first day. You might say she has a magic touch. She certainly has an overflowing heart and a passion for bringing joy to the elderly. Bringing a loved one to assisted living can be an ordeal or a celebration. People like JoAnn make it a celebration. Want to find out more? Come to Agape Senior Assisted Living in Garden City and ask for JoAnn!

Chris Little



Garden City /Murrells Inlet South Carolina Assisted Living

Assisted Living of GardenCity provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and theirfamilies, the dedicated staff strives to optimize quality of life by embracingindividuality and preserving dignity. Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, MyrtleBeach, Pawley’s Island, Socastee, Bucksport, Burgess SC. – Call Agape SeniorGarden City at 843-357-0200 or 800-411-2427

Columbia SC Agapé Senior Kathwood Provides Royal Coverage for Residents

The life enrichment coordinator for Kathwood Assisted Living, Michelle Oden, is not going to pass up the opportunity for her residents to enjoy the Royal Wedding. Michelle is creating a wedding like atmosphere by decorating the community room where the residents will be able to enjoy the rebroadcast of the wedding on a large flat screen TV.

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Columbia / Forest Acres South Carolina – Agape Senior Kathwood



Agape Senior Assisted Living of Kathwood provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff works diligently to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Columbia, Forest Acres, Blythewood, Elgin, lugoff, Camden – Call us 803-787-1234

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South Carolina Alzheimer Dementia Tip of the Week

Alzheimer’s or Dementia… Know the difference it does matter… If you are asked what type of pudding you like you would automatically think of a type of pudding. Pistachio is my favorite. Pudding is the inclusive heading and Pistachio, chocolate, vanilla, butterscotch, and strawberry are types. The same is true of Dementia and Alzheimer’s. Dementia is the inclusive heading and Alzheimer’s is a type of Dementia just as Pistachio is a type of pudding. When you or your loved one go to the Dr. to find out what is causing the dementia he may tell you that you have mild cognitive impairment until he can tell you what type of dementia you have. All dementia really means is that you are not thinking correctly and it is interfering with the activities of daily living (ADL’s) You should never just leave the answer with dementia because there are some dementia’s that can be reversed. We will find out about those and others next week.

Adelle Stanley
Agape Senior Director of Dementia Programs

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Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. West Columbia, Lexington, Springdale, Cayce, Oak Grove, St Andrews, Columbia, South Congaree, Pine ridge, Red Bank. Call us at 800-411- 2427

Rock Hill Assisted Living; Extraordinary People, Extraordinary Care

Where can you find people that perform miracles for those in need, day in and day out? That question may call to mind images of Calcuttaor other far off cites.

Think again!

Think Agape Senior’s assisted living inRock Hill,SC.Now imagine a confident young woman with a heart full of love. That’s Jennifer Peay. Now hear about one of the everyday miracles that occurred right here in Rock Hill, South Carolina, in Jennifer’s own words:

“Ever since I have been an assisted living administrator, I have kept a commitment to make personal contact with at least six of my residents each day. Personal contact for me means I sit down with them, talk to them, get to know them, and ask them how they are. I like to keep an eye on our residents because sometimes just a slight change in behavior can indicate something big is going on.”

“I had one resident that had been with us for about two weeks. She recently had a stroke, which had affected her speech and she was frustrated by her inability to speak. She knew what she wanted to say, but was unable to get the words out. I immediately connected with her because I used to be a speech therapist, and I understood how upsetting that can be. I explained to her that I had worked with many people that had been in her shoes, and that I could help her come up with ways to communicate. She immediately lit up and connected with me as well. Since then, I worked with her and she has been settling in.’”

“On Tuesday, I noticed that she was more distraught than usual over her garbled words. She was having a harder time opening her apartment door as well. I mentioned to our physical therapists that I noticed this small change. I asked if they could work with her on opening her door and on a communication board for her.”

“Wednesday morning I saw even more of a decline. She was leaning slightly to the right. I noticed in the dining room that she was not picking up her fork to eat. I sat down beside her and started talking to her. I asked her if something was wrong. The look in her eyes told me that something was going on, but she could not understand what it was nor communicate it. I realized she has forgotten the sequencing necessary to feed herself.”

“I immediately notified our physician and shared my concerns. I wondered if she was having a slow hemorrhagic bleed. He came up to look at her. He agreed that she needed to have a scan. They are able to get one scheduled for the following MONDAY. I said, “No, that is not good enough. She needs one today.”

“The roadblock was that her family was inTexasand they cannot get into town to sign the paperwork to consent for the scan. I told Brenda my medical technician to call the family and give them the imaging center information and to make the consent form happen and that we would get her there today even if I had to take her personally. Brenda coordinated the consent and we got her an earlier appointment.”

“Friday morning, we transported her via ambulance to the hospital. Her problem was caught in time. And thankfully, our own doctor was ultimately able to help this resident. “

“I felt so grateful I was able to help this lady get the care she needed in time by noticing the changes in her behavior and then insisting that she get medical attention sooner rather than later. I am so thankful that she did not suffer through the weekend and that we had a chance to provide her with relief.”

That’s Jennifer describing an ordinary day in the life of an Agape Senior administrator. It’s also the story of what a difference a dedicated, committed person can make.

Mother Theresa has told us that to change the world we must “Do small things with great love.” That’s what you’ll see if you visit Jennifer and the many other staff members like her in the long term care facilities of Agape Senior inRock Hilland all over the state.

Where can you find people who perform miracles day after day? There are more miracle workers than you can count at Agape Senior’s assisted living facilities.

If you or someone you know needs extraordinary care and lots of love…and maybe a miracle you might want to tell them about Agape Senior’s facilities, because miracles abound there every day. And at Agape Senior, that’s ordinary.

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Agape Senior Assisted Living of Rock Hill provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff works diligently to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Rock Hill, Fort Mill, York, Tega Cay, Lake Wyle – Call us 803-207-8000

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South Carolina Senior Care CEO Urges Delegation to Push for VA Benefits

Senior Care Executive Urges Delegation to Push Veteran’s Benefits



The founder and CEO of the largest company serving the state’s elderly citizens is urging South Carolina’s Congressional delegation to find ways to help veterans realize they may be missing out on billions of dollars in benefits.

Speaking Tuesday at the S.C. State Chamber of Commerce’s annual Washington Night, Agapé Senior founder and president G. Scott Middleton of West Columbia said, “there are tens of thousands of veterans in South Carolina who may be eligible for VA benefits, but either are not aware of the possibility, or don’t believe this could be true, or just simply do not know how to do the paperwork.”

Middleton said he learned about the dilemma as part of his research on issues involving the aging when he was writing his latest book, Parent Talk: The Nine Conversations To Have With Your Aging Loved Ones.

Agapé Senior is a statewide company headquartered in West Columbia that serves the needs of elderly citizens and employs 1,300 South Carolinians.

Middleton, a member of the Board of Directors of the S.C. Chamber of Commerce, said his company is trying to solve the communication problem by conducting seminars at Agapé facilities in Columbia, Irmo, Lexington, West Columbia, Rock Hill, Conway, Garden City, Laurens, and at many other locations across the state. Direct mail is used to invite veterans and their spouses to Agapé facilities where they can discuss their eligibility at no cost.

Middleton told the delegation, “I am here today to urge you all to help get this information to our heroes so that they can access the benefits that they so richly deserve. “

Veterans or their widows are likely missing out on billions of dollars a year nationwide. Widows are hit the hardest. “Only one in seven widows who possibly could qualify actually receive checks. These men and women were there for us. Now we need to be there for them,” said Middleton.

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South Carolina Assisted Living Helps Veterans Obtain Benefits

 

South Carolina Agape Senior Assisted Living and Hospice Help Veterans Secure Benefits



On December 8, 1941, the United States of America declared war on the Axis powers, one day after the horrific Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor. For the next four years, the brave men and women of our armed services did whatever was needed to preserve our freedom. From the Battle of Midway to storming the beaches of Normandy and every battle in between, our soldiers persevered. On September 2, 1945, the final Japanese surrender was signed aboard the deck of the battleship Missouri, bringing an end to the war.

It is estimated that 16 million American men and women served in the military during World War II and that over 400,000 American personnel lost their lives in combat.

Anyone that was in the armed forces during the time of World War II and survived would today be in their eighties and nineties. This great generation sacrificed everything so that we could have a better life. Many of these same veterans today now need assistance in day-to-day living, but many believe that they cannot afford long-term care. Most of these brave veterans do not realize that they are entitled to a little known VA benefit that helps veterans, and their spouses, make long-term care affordable. Helping secure the VA benefits to which today’s senior veterans are entitled is a commitment that Agapé Senior takes seriously.

Each Assisted living campus has a Senior Solutions Advisor (SSA) assigned that can help facilitate the process. If the veteran is on hospice, the social worker assigned to the patient will be the one helping to secure benefits.

In 2010 Agapé Senior enlisted the help of Aaron D. Cantley, a graduate of the Virginia Military Institute and United States Marine, to help educate veterans in our local communities about the VA Aid and Attendance benefit. Aaron served in Iraq in 2004, 2005, and 2006 and was awarded the Air Medal, signed by President George W. Bush, on four occasions. Aaron is an Accredited Representative of the Department of Veterans Affairs and has a passion for helping to ensure veterans and their spouses are receiving the benefits to which they are entitled.

In 2011 every Agape Senior campus across the state of South Carolina will be hosting VA educational seminars. The seminars and the information presented will be crucial to understanding this important benefit. Jason Taylor, (SSA) for Conway, SC, stated the following about the seminar hosted at the Conway campus in 2010 “There were a significant number of veterans that did not know this benefit even existed and for some, the help could not have come at a better time. All veterans deserve to have someone fighting for them, after all the fighting they have done for us.”

The education of our veterans is an on-going and important process that can make an incredible impact on the quality of life of senior veterans needing assistance. If you or anyone you know would like more information about VA Aid and Attendance Benefit or a schedule of upcoming seminars for your area, please call 1 800-411-2427



Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve.

Garden City SC Assisted Living Receives Grief Training

Finding the Missing Piece

Dealing with grief can be a very fearful event in our lives. The care staff at Agape Senior Assisted Living at Garden City received a brighter outlook on dealing with grief through a puzzle. Linda Jordan, ordained minister and grief counselor, utilized one puzzle to educated our staff on the several complex aspects of a person’s grief. With all staff huddled around the puzzle, each employee utilized their skills to put it together. The leaders instructed others to place matching colors together, the energetic members inspired each others to work faster, the bystanders watched from a distance and when the puzzle was complete the staff realized one thing; it contained a missing piece.

Linda Jordan asked staff how they felt when they realized one piece was missing. Answers such as, “upset, confused, disbelief and let-down” were all shared. “The puzzle represents a picture of what is supposed to be in our daily lives,” she said. “When the puzzle contains a missing piece you all reacted with negativity.” “The missing piece represents a loss of something resulting in grief.” She then asked the staff what are examples of missing pieces? Answers soared through the room: “loss of a loved one, loss of a pet, loss of mobility, loss of a job, loss of your house.” She then asked our staff, “How do you know your resident’s are grieving?” Again answers soared through the room, “isolation, quietness, physical aggression, weight loss.” Linda, with the assistance of staff, separated grief in 5 sections: emotional, behavioral, physical, cognitive and spiritual. While going through each example, staff shared moments on how they have helped resident’s overcome grief.

Some staff members shared stories about resident’s who have lost a loved one while living at our facility. “Losing a loved one is the toughest grief that anyone can experience,” Linda explained. Michelle Grant, Agape Senior staff member, shared with the group about the way she helped one of our resident’s get over the loss of the resident’s significant other. Michelle said, “you have to be patient, which is one of the 9 fruits of the spirit that Agape uses to promote our on-the-job experience.” Michelle explained how she listened to stories about weddings, vacations and grandchildren with the resident which resulted in many laughs and may tears. For that resident, “Michelle has helped that resident overcome grief,” Linda explained.

In closing, Linda shared her enormous gratitude for our staff. Not only is Linda a renowned speaker, grief counselor and minister; her mother is a resident here in Agape Senior Garden City. She left the staff knowing that every person has a way to deal with grief and now that we all know what to look for, we can change people’s lives.

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Assisted Living of Garden City provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff strives to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Surfside Beach, Murrells Inlet, Myrtle Beach, Pawley’s Island, Socastee, Bucksport, Burgess SC. – Call Agape Senior Garden City at

843-357-0200 or 800-411-2427

Conway SC Assisted Living Provider Holds Seminars for Veterans

Conway SC Agape Senior Holds VA Seminars for over 700 Local Veterans

How many people attend your church on Sunday? How many friends do you have on Facebook? How many people were in your high school graduating class?

These questions put into perspective the number of military veterans and their families that Aaron Cantley, a Virginia Military Institute graduate, and retired United States Marine Corp, touched in a single week. Aaron spent one week in Horry County recently and spoke to over 700 veterans and their family members. Aaron's message to those veterans is helping them understand the Aid and Attendance Benefits available to qualifying veterans.

In order to qualify, a veteran must be 65 years of age or disabled, must have served 90 days of active duty—one of which must have been during war time—and must not have been dishonorably discharged. Veterans who meet these criteria and who need assistance may qualify for up to $23,963 in benefits per year.

Aaron has partnered with Agape Senior to help veterans obtain these benefits. Approximately 90% of the attendees did not know these benefits existed. The Veterans' Administration has $22 billion per year in undistributed funds for veterans who qualify but don't claim the benefits.

If you know of a veteran or spouse of a veteran who is in need of assistance, contact a Senior Solutions Advisor at Agape Senior today. Agape Senior provides luxurious assisted living facilities throughout South Carolina. Contact Agape Senior at 1-800-411-AGAPE or http://www.askagape.com/.

Matt Staub



Agape Senior Conway

Agape Assisted Living and Skilled Nursing of Conway provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff strives to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Conway, Aynor, Loris, Marion, Mulins, Johnsonville, Hemingway, Myrtle Beach, Pawley’s Island, Socastee, Bucksport, Burgess SC. – Call Agape Senior Conway at 843-397-2273 or 800-411-2427

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South Carolina Agape Senior CEO Scott Middleton Talks about His New Book Parent Talk



Parent Talk by G. Scott Middleton

Tonight WIS Channel 10 News 7:00 PM

Scott Middleton, CEO Agape Senior, explains motivation and inspiration for writing this important book.

Parent Talk the new book by G. Scott Middleton, is a must read source of expertise and information for any adult child with aging parents. Throughout this book, the author draws on his years of experience in senior healthcare to assist you in anticipating your parent’s decline, understanding the best care options, and making sound decisions. Come gain the invaluable insights revealed through The Nine Conversations as you become your loved one’s keeper.

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427

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Lexington SC Agape Assisted Living Uses Innovative Arts program

What is Mneme Therapy® and how can it benefit our senior residents on independent/assisted living campuses?

Art Without Boundaries®, a professional association with a mission to improve the quality of life for individuals with autism, Alzheimer's disease, and other related disorders of the brain by promoting Mneme Therapy, is a regular program provided at Agape Senior’s Lexington Campus.

Mneme Therapy® uses everyday pleasures such as singing, movement, painting and storytelling in a unique combination to stimulate dramatic changes in the brain. Although the goal is to provide a rewarding experience, documented testimonies show significant improvement in some clients in verbal skills, mobility, level of combativeness, and understanding instructions.



Dana Warwick, a certified therapist from Art Without Boundaries® Association, came to Agape Senior Lexington in late 2010 to work with our seniors on the pleasures of painting. Each painting is a masterpiece and treasure to the resident and applauded by his/her family.

Dana stated, "I try to put each senior at ease and encourage every stroke of the brush; when I walk in the doors of Agape Senior anticipating a creative and enriching time with some new friends, I leave blessed and inspired by their willingness to give it a try.”

Melba Allard, Regional Vice President of Marketing for the Midlands, states, "I am impressed that most, if not all, of the seniors has never painted before and are so surprised when they see how professional the completed painting looks.”

What a precious privilege to be given the opportunity to brighten someone's day and to give them praise for their efforts and applause for the finished product. “The paintings become a tangible keepsake for their loved one,” says Dana.

Agape Senior has these colorful and unique paintings displayed around the Campus. The residents were proud to sign and name their creations. Go by and view them at 5422 Augusta Road, Lexington, SC.



Lexington South Carolina Assisted Living

Assisted Living of Lexington provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff strives to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity. Lexington, Gilbert, Batesburg, Red Bank, Gaston, Pelion SC – Call Agape Senior Lexington Assisted Living at (803) 520-5850 or (800) 411-2427

Senior Adults Need to be Accompanied to the Doctor-AgapeSenior South Carolina Provides Solution

Another one of the many pitfalls of sick elderly people living home alone is that they often go to the doctor alone. A recent article in the New York Times talks about the fact that many seniors are not good at communicating their physical issues with the physicians. It is so important that the senior adult is not only accompanied to the doctor but it should be by someone who has knowledge of the person’s daily activities. Many times just the discussion of what the person does each day can be enlightening to the physician.

At AgapeSenior we provide practitioners who come to the assisted living and nursing homes where they can talk with the caregivers and other staff to get a better understanding of the patients overall health.

Scott Middleton

AgapeSenior is a family of companies that provide living settings and health services to seniors in South Carolina. AgapeSenior offers assisted living, skilled rehabilitation, hospice services, physician services, pharmacy, medical equipment, long-term care insurance, ambulance transportation and real estate services. Agape services Rock Hill, Lancaster, Chester, Columbia, Laurens, Sumter, Camden, Cheraw, Chesterfield, Hartsville, Florence, Kingstree, North Charleston, Myrtle Beach, Conway, Loris, Garden City, Pawley’s Island, Surfside and Gaffney.

South Carolina Agape Senior CEO Scott Middleton Provides Sound Advice

Scott Middleton, CEO of Agape Senior, writes in his new book “Parent Talk” about the multiple challenges families face dealing with aging parents. The book is now available for purchase through Amazon.com and AskAgape.com. All proceeds from the sale of the book will be donated to the Agape Foundation. In the introduction Scott talks about one of the major issues confronting our senior adults today, “isolation,” Scott writes:

The truth is our quality of life can suffer dramatically
if we attempt to live in complete isolation. But in the
case of a declining senior adult, especially when the
spouse is no longer living, the lack of interaction with
others poses one of the greatest and most debilitating
threats to their well-being — isolation. The lack of
adequate socialization is the silent enemy of an aging
senior that too many “caretakers” fail to understand
or consider.

Scott’s point is clearly illustrated below in this excerpt from a testimonial that was written about the dramatic improvement a daughter saw in her mother after she was introduced into a social setting at Agape Senior Harbison.

The daughter explains how her mother would refuse to get dressed and usually stayed in her gown all day. She would skip breakfast and just pick at lunch and dinner. She would sit and rock, staring into space and rarely attempting to walk. She would not brush her teeth, bathe or groom herself. She was always difficult about taking her medication. She became weak and unable to walk without assistance and she talked every day about it being her last day.

The daughter goes on to explain the dramatic improvement she saw within five weeks of moving her mom to assisted living. Her mom was now getting up, getting dressed, and going to breakfast. She now eats everything on her plate at every meal. She gets involved with the various activities that are offered daily at the facility, uses her walker to get around, takes her medications when they are given, and does not mention that it is her last day. The daughter said she even asked her to bring her blush and lipstick to her. She has regained strength and has gained eight pounds.

The above results are not uncommon. Caretakers at assisted living facilities often witness dramatic improvement in new residents when they are introduced back into a social setting. The combination of scheduled nutritious meals, proper dosage of prescribed medication, and the stimulation of the social setting all contribute to help the residents to have a positive outlook.

Agapé Senior’s mission is to provide integrated health services to meet the needs of senior adults in a faith-based atmosphere. The company’s philosophy is based upon its commitment to provide the best quality care possible for members of our senior adult community. We are committed to participating actively in and around the communities we serve. Call us at 800-411- 2427

Columbia Assisted Living Celebrates 203 Years



Anna Faye West Ready to Celebrate



What do we as a society consider to be of great value today? The Fort Knox gold depository in Kentucky is currently storing 147.3 million ounces of gold. At current gold prices, the treasure stored at the facility is worth over $200 billion dollars. Fort Knox is holding a significant national treasure.

The National Center for Assisted Living (NCAL) estimates that there are approximately 28,000 assisted living facilities in the United States that are home to over one million senior adult residents. The average age of an assisted living resident today is 83 years. The collective knowledge, life experience, and wisdom of those residents represent 83 million years. Our country’s assisted living facilities are also home to a significant national treasure.



Inez Caskey and Anna Faye West



On January 13,^, 2011, Agape Senior Kathwood in Columbia, South Carolina, held a birthday celebration for two of its treasured residents that had reached and surpassed the centenarian milestone. Anna Faye West turned 100 the day of the celebration and Inez Caskey turned 103 exactly one week earlier on January 6, 2011.

The birthday girls, along with approximately 30 other residents, celebrated with a delicious chocolate   cake, balloons and traditional happy birthday singing. Both Anna and Inez enjoyed the festivities and extra attention from the staff and residents.

Anna Faye West was born in Etna, North Carolina, and later moved to Swannanoa, near Asheville. Her father was a lawyer and a member of the Georgia House of Representatives.  Following high school graduation, Anna went to work for the Beacon Blanket Company in Swannanoa, where she met and married her husband at the age of 25. Anna worked for Beacon Blanket for 34 years and rose to the position of cost accountant. She retired from the company at age 52 and eventually relocated to Florida with her husband. Anna moved back to South Carolina in 2006 to be closer to her niece and has been a resident of Agape Senior Kathwood since 2007.

Inez Caskey was born in Kershaw, South Carolina, and started her working career as a school teacher, later working for the Department of Social Services. She loved to garden and enjoyed being in the great outdoors whenever possible. Inez often volunteered in the kitchen at Shandon United Methodist Church in Columbia, where she has been a member for over 60 years.



Anna Faye West is Proud to be 100



It is hard to imagine the number of stories that can be told about these two residents’ life journeys spanning over 100 years. Each woman possesses a rich history made up of human connections that have been interwoven over time to create individual life experiences. It is likely that Anna and Inez had many occasions to celebrate over the past 100 years, and it is also likely that they experienced their share of hard times and grief that so often accompanies life. One thing is for sure:  These two gracious women have a combined 203 years of living and are still enjoying each and every day.


Joe B. Nester

Columbia / Forest Acres South Carolina – Agape Senior Kathwood

Agape Senior Assisted Living of Kathwood provides senior-focused solutions. In working with seniors and their families, the dedicated staff works diligently to optimize quality of life by embracing individuality and preserving dignity – Call us 803-787-1234